Welcome, beautiful moms, to another heartfelt post here at Light for Moms. Today, for my fourth blog post, I’m diving into a practical yet transformative tool that has brought clarity and peace into my life: decluttering. It’s not just about tidying up your home—it’s about creating space in your environment, your mind, and your soul to hear God’s gentle whisper more clearly.
The Weight of Clutter
As moms, our lives are full—full of love, responsibilities, and, let’s be honest, stuff. Between toys, medical supplies, bills, and the endless to-do lists, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Clutter isn’t just physical; it piles up in our hearts and minds, too. For me, the chaos of my home mirrored the chaos in my spirit. I was drowning in exhaustion, and I didn’t even realize how much my environment was contributing to it.
Then, my mom introduced me to a game-changer: a 30-day decluttering challenge. The concept was simple yet profound—on day one, you get rid of one item. On day two, two items. Day three, three items, and so on. It sounded manageable, even for someone like me who was juggling doctor’s appointments, therapies, and my own health battles. Little did I know, this challenge would spark a revelation.
The 30-Day Decluttering Challenge: A Small Step with Big Impact
I started the challenge with skepticism. How could letting go of a single sock on day one make a difference? But as the days progressed, something shifted. By day 10, I was parting with bags of clothes my kid had outgrown and stacks of papers I’d held onto “just in case.” By day 20, I was tackling junk drawers and forgotten corners of my home. And by day 30? I felt lighter. Not just because my house was less crowded, but because I was learning to let go.
This challenge wasn’t just about stuff—it was about surrender. Each item I released was a small act of trust, a way of saying, “God, I don’t need to cling to this. I trust You to provide what I truly need.” Psalm 55:22 reminds us, “Cast your cares on the Lord, and He will sustain you.” Decluttering became a spiritual practice, a way to cast my burdens—physical and emotional—onto Him.
Taking It Deeper: The 6-Month Decluttering Journey
The 30-day challenge was just the beginning. Hungry for more freedom, I enrolled in a 6-month paid decluttering program. This wasn’t just about clearing out closets; it was a guided journey to reimagine my relationship with my home, my time, my relationships, and even my thoughts. The program taught me to ask hard questions: Why am I holding onto this? Does it serve my family or my faith? Is it drawing me closer to God’s purpose for me?
Over those six months, I transformed my home from a source of stress to a sanctuary of peace. I learned to prioritize what mattered—creating space for prayer, playtime with my kids, and rest for my weary body. But the real transformation happened in my heart. Decluttering my environment helped me declutter my mind. I began to release guilt, comparison, and the pressure to be a “perfect” mom. I found space to breathe, to pray, and to hear God’s voice more clearly.
Why Decluttering Matters for Christian Moms
As Christian moms, we’re called to steward our homes and hearts well. Decluttering isn’t about achieving a Pinterest-perfect house; it’s about creating a space where God’s peace can dwell. When our homes are cluttered, it’s harder to focus on what truly matters—our relationship with Jesus, our families, and the calling He’s placed on our lives.
Here are a few reasons why decluttering has been a game-changer for me:
- It Creates Physical Space: A tidy home feels like a deep breath. It’s easier to rest, play, and connect with your family when you’re not tripping over toys or searching for lost keys.
- It Clears Mental Clutter: Letting go of physical stuff helps quiet the mental noise. I found myself less distracted and more present for prayer and my kid.
- It Reflects Spiritual Surrender: Decluttering is an act of faith. It’s trusting that God’s provision is enough and that we don’t need to hoard or hold onto things out of fear.
- It Honors Your Calling: A less cluttered life leaves room for what God is calling you to do — whether that’s nurturing your family, serving others, or simply resting in His presence.
How to Start Your Decluttering Journey
Ready to create space in your home and heart? You don’t need to overhaul your life overnight. Start small, just like I did. Here’s how you can begin:
- Try the 30-Day Decluttering Challenge: Commit to letting go of one item on day one, two on day two, and so on. Donate, recycle, or toss items that no longer serve you. Invite God into the process — pray over harder decisions and ask for His guidance.
- Focus on One Area at a Time: Pick a single drawer, shelf, or corner. Don’t try to tackle your whole house at once. Small wins build momentum.
- Ask Purposeful Questions: For each item, ask: Does this bring me joy or serve my family? Is it worth the space it takes up? Is the time and energy needed to take care for this item worth it? Am I holding onto this only to please someone else?
- Consider a Guided Program: If you’re ready for a deeper journey, look into a decluttering course or program. The 6-month program I joined was worth every penny for the structure and accountability it provided. *The one I joined was in French. If you’re looking for a similar program in English, search for online decluttering courses or communities that offer guided support. Look for ones that align with your values and provide accountability.
- Pray Through It: Decluttering can stir up emotions — guilt, nostalgia, or fear. Bring those feelings to God. Ask Him to show you what to release and what to keep.
A Lighter, Brighter Life
Decluttering has been a gift in my life—a practical tool that’s helped me create space for God’s peace amidst the storms of parenting, illnesses, and financial strain. It’s not about perfection; it’s about progress. It’s about making room for the abundant life Jesus promises.
Here’s a prayer I’ve been using as I declutter:
Heavenly Father, thank You for the home You’ve provided for my family. Help me to let go of the clutter that distracts me from Your peace. Give me wisdom to know what to keep and what to release, and fill my heart with gratitude for the blessings I have. Let my home be a place of rest and joy, reflecting Your love in every corner. Amen.
Moms, you are doing holy, hard work. If your heart or home feels heavy, I invite you to try this simple practice. Start with one item. Trust God with one small step. And watch how He uses it to bring light into your life.
What’s one area of your home or heart you’d love to declutter? What’s holding you back from starting? Share in the comments below — I’d love to pray for you as you begin this journey. And if you try the 30-day challenge, let me know how it goes!